Married at First Sight...
Marriage
is a higher leavel of a relationship between two people. It is a celebratory
vow in front of family and friends. Married swear each other love, faith and honesty to the end of their life.
In this time people meet the other half in a different circumstances like: internet chats or mobile aplications. There exists more traditional ways to meet your girlfriend or boyfriend, for example: parties, school and other places were we go out.
In this time people meet the other half in a different circumstances like: internet chats or mobile aplications. There exists more traditional ways to meet your girlfriend or boyfriend, for example: parties, school and other places were we go out.
Sometimes
love starts in strange places in the least expected moments like: Tv show.
In
America was created a fomous realityshow „ Married at First Sight”.The idea of the show is to find three couples who connect with each other on
the emotional levels and possibly have a chance of falling in love with each
other. The selection process will be controlled by the team of specialists
,psychologists and experts in order to
provide the best possible matches on the physical and emotional level. The idea
is to get married in the show and after that they are allowed to spend a night
together in the hotel, followed by six weeks long honey moon in one of the most
exotic locations in the world, where they finally have a chance to get to know
each other a bit more and decide if they can stay together forever. During
three seasons that have been relased only two out of nine couples survived
together. The rest either broke up after recording, some of them tried to work
out the issues but in the end they all failed to stay together except two. 
In my opinion this show failed from the start
as I do believe that love it is a feeling which can not be forced on to
anybody. Before making such important decisions where you decide on starting up
the family and spending the rest of your life together with somebody, you have
to have time to get to know each other. Your before that life decision, when it
comes to giving your hear to other human, you shoud know your future wife’s or
husband’s adventages and downsides, habits and environment – after marriage you
will be part of that. So time is needed by time to make sure you really want to
spend every day together for the rest of your life. We are just humans so all
we can do is just hope for a happy ending.
1) In your opinion can we find love in such way?
2) What do you think about marriage?
An idea to find love by the program “Married at the first sight” is such a weird idea but it is probably better than chatting on social networks and having a relationship without any meetings. This kind of shows are said to be made for public audience. It cannot be denied that social media disseminate false that’s why people behave on the same way. It is really thoughtless to find a husband-to-be or wife-to-be on that way.
ReplyDeletePeople who take part in this kind of entertainment are constantly observed that’s why they can dissemble, show off, cover up true personality. In my opinion, it is not a good idea to believe in feelings and emotions. Because after show it could occur that your love behave in the different way and you fell in love with “stranger”. It is better to find somebody in a random place like café, working place or even during classes.
When it comes to marriage, it is such a great opportunity to spend life with human you love. I don’t mind walking down the aisle and saying “yes”. I think that it requires lots of trust, commitment and of course you have to be sure that you’re ready for sharing life with somebody.
It is not big surprise that majority of couples didn’t stay together. To be honest it is surprising that any of them did. This indicates that matching in pairs and falling in love cannot be predicted by no matter how skilled psychologists or advanced test. It is not easy to find Mr. or Ms. Right, that’s why there are so many unhappy couples around us. Therefore, before tying the knot we should be sure that our partner is reliable and supportive in various situations, when we are in trouble, in time of crises, time of sadness, etc.… and vice versa – we have to check if we are supportive enough for him or her.
ReplyDeleteFor me this kind of programme is a completly absurd and I wonder if it's not a fake programme. The idea of marriage is very great. It's the part of our culture. I am very sorry that nowadays it is so hard to be a couple for the rest of life.
ReplyDeleteIt's possible, but mostly future couple meet each other thanks to friends or events. Marriage in TV programme can be faked and soon, married coulpe have to divorce, because they really didn't know each other or being celebrity tired them out.
ReplyDeleteHonestly I think that this type of tv shows is ridiculous. From the beginning to the end there is no ONE real emotion. Everything is faked. I don't believe that it is possible to find love in such a way. I think marriage is an end of a long journey, when people are exploring each other. It has to be real, and for sure it can't be forced. You can't fake real love.
ReplyDeleteThe idea of this programme is really weird. I think that it is fake - it's American television, so it's all about show, which millions of people from California to Vermont will watch and enjoy that. I can accept fact, that someone invented this show, but I can understand why this has actually worked. The television audience in USA is really brain-washed.
ReplyDeleteWell, people were finding "love" this way in ages! Of course we can argue about how many of this mariages were good or even good enough but they were and lasts till death of spouse. For many people this way was good enough because not everyones ambition is to love and be loved.
ReplyDeleteLove come accidently and only way to find it is to stop looking for. I mean that sometimes people discover love in old, good friend or sometimes someone who we met with dating intention is little looser. There are no rules and in my opinion every way to happy falling in love is a good way to do it. Marriage is very important thing to me. I don't want to extol, but in this year I'll get married and it's very exciting. I couldn't wait any longer... I purposed... And here we go... I think that marriage is a big responsibility, but it's a gift too. It's so beautiful filling that you can make the family with somebody which you love, that I even can't express my feelings about it...
ReplyDeleteI think this kind of programms are not very useful. For me, love is not a game, we shouldn't play with other people's emotion. What's more, I wouldn't like anyone to look at my personal life. My relationship is just mine and no one should has access to it. It's a relation between me and my boyfriend or husband, not between us and the rest of the World. We all should just wait for love, not to try to find it in every possible way. I think that most of people finally need marriage, there are lot of reasons. For some it's going to be a religion, for other just a desire to call someone "my wife" or "my husband" and for some people to have an incredible wedding. I think that in the future I will get married to swear in front of the whole World that I want to be with my love till the end of my life.
ReplyDeleteMarriage is very important in my country. When people live together they should have a wedding. I agree with this and I want to have a husband. We can find love in various places. We do not know when we met love our life.
ReplyDeleteIn my opinion is not possible to find true love thanks to TV show. When we make a decision about marriage we don’t take into consideration only look and character. We need something more to know that we want to spend rest of our life with someone, so no one else can make this decision for us even specialist or psychologist from reality show. Personally for me marriage is important and serious choice. Marriage is associated with the vow in front of God, family and friends, so I have to be sure that I can say such important words to someone.
ReplyDeleteI'm agree with author of this text - "love it is a feeling which can not be forced on to anybody". In my opinion find love in such way (by the TV program) it's weird and silly idea. I think that marriage is a huge thing in human life (the most important decision, a huge change, experience and so on) and we can't treat marriage as a fun moment or something like that. It's a big deal!
ReplyDeleteOh... I can't belive in all these stupid TV series where people meet others for first time and choose their life partner... How they can do that?! It's one of most important choices, you need to know more about this person, you need to feel bond with her/him. I'm person who couldn't do something like this, but it's not my life but their.
ReplyDeleteI think it is possible to find love in TV show. There are tests meetings with psychologists so there are reasons to think that that people can be a couple. Why is it worse than dating portals? Marriage makes people want to try and solve issues between them rather than give up with first argue.
ReplyDeleteMarriage isn’t needed to live happily and for the rest of live. For me it’s rather practical to have same surname as the man I live with and our children and right to have information if my partner is in hospital. But as person who don’t want to have catholic wedding I’m not think about long white dress and whole family at ceremony.
When we take into account how expensive the divorce is, it's beyond question that marriage is a serious decision. Marriage is only an institution and it's unnecessary for happy relationship but it's a legal and official tie. It gives the both spouses, and their children, legal fundaments.
ReplyDeleteGrowing into that kind of decisions may take years. Using some TV shows for your future husband/wife quest is negation of maturity.
I'm deeply sure that this kind of programs aren't absolutely useful. I think that the idea of marriage is very great and none of the media shows are worth to represent it.
ReplyDeletePeople just try to hide their personalities and to earn, and the topic is profitable enough. The real feelings mustn't be made famous and reachable for everyone.
I think "Married at first sight" is the most ridiculous programme on TV. It totally takes away all seriousness of a marriage. I think there is a one in a million chance that someone can find love like this, so it's almost impossible. I think marriage is a great think but also very hard to keep up.
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ReplyDeleteOh, I don't believe in love at first sight and, the same, in married at first sight. I can't imagine that two strange people can buit their love in a few minutes. Of course it is possible to organize such marriage, but I think that it isn't a good idea. Unless you want to be famous...
ReplyDeleteIn my opinion marriage is one of the most significant moments of our life. We should be with person whom we love and whom we well know. We will spend with these human all life so it should be reasoned choice.
Entering a marriage is a very important moment for me. A lot of people will say that after the wedding nothing changes, but it depends on what limits we set before that. In my opinion, the marriage can include people who have got to know each other well, love each other and are sure that they want to spend the rest of their lives with each other. Man is not able to fall in love within a few days. I think that infatuation is possible from the first sight, but more time is needed for love to fully develop. The process of learning may take a long time, we must fully trust the other person to share everything that concerns our lives with her. And I think that this knowledge is necessary for marriage. Every more days when we get to know each other are really great - at least I remember this time very well.
ReplyDeleteIdea of "matching" people, which will "fit" to each other is really insane for me. Love is not that obviuos thing, it needs time to grow. Sometimes you can meet person literally from your dreams, which has no disadvantages and you won't fall in love with him or her. And sometimes you can meet person, who can even seems annoying to you and you will fall for him or her. I believe that we can like someone from first sight, but it is impossible to talk about love without knowing other person.
ReplyDeleteThis kind of programs are senseless and are made just for commercial purposes. It cannot be said whether people match or not before they meet or at least observe each other.
ReplyDeleteWhen it comes to marriage I don't think that it is necessary to be married to have a happy relationship. Marriage can be a good think but the whole concept of wedding doesn't appeal to me.
I believe that we can find love everywhere and it’s no matter where. I think that we shouldn’t judge people who decided to take part in such programs to find love. It could be some reasons why they prefer to join in this kind programs. Marriage is important thing in our culture. When people decide to live together they should get married. But I’m sure that decision of marriage shouldn’t be impulsive.
ReplyDeleteI do not believe in idea of the ,,Married at First Sight". I just could not imagine that group of "specialists" can find you a partner till rest your life. People should find a partner on their own, because noone knows us as good as we know, what we like, what we expected from our partner what are our advantages and disadvantages. Also people should get to know each other well before marriage. It is better to know what are the other person's hobbys, beliefs, plans for future. Of course some people can't find love and maybe they think such realityshows as ,,Married at First Sight" can help them, but for me this is not how marriage works. Marriage is a special contract between two people who love each other and decide to spend the rest of their lives together.
ReplyDeleteI hate those programms. They are trying to make a show of love and make money. Relationship between two people is more important and deeper than one night in hotel and six week trip. It isn’t surprising that low percent of those couple can survive. I agree with the author of the article – you have to know past, downsides and habits, to be really good couple. Psychologists can’t predict a result of „matching” two people, because love is something more complitated, there is a lot of couples who are happy and no one can explain, why there are still together.
ReplyDeleteThese types of entertainment programs are ridiculous, and making money out of a marriage (or even for love) (we're talking about producers) is something not entirely right. Of course, it's an individual decision of people who decide to take part in such programs, but I feel sorry for them - I have no idea what is driving such people. Marriage should be something that we decide after knowing the person with whom we are to spend the rest of our lives.
ReplyDeleteThink that people who decide to go to such a show are very desperate. I would not want to go to a place to marry a person who is with me just because no one else wanted his. It must be awful! I don't believe that in the long run it can succeed and bring happiness to people. Maybe I'm wrong, but I think people should get to know each other first, then make friends and at the end decide to get married. Not to just meet and think "maybe it'l work".
ReplyDeleteI believe that love at first sight is possible, but we should always stay together longer to see if everything suits us in the other person. Marriage is not something that should be taken lightly. In my opinion, everyone should think twice before getting married.
ReplyDeleteWell, it sometimes happens that we meet someone and after few talks we feel like we’ve known each other for years. I guess it can be named ‘love at first sight’. But even then the decision about marriage could only destroy the incipient love. It’s not easy to change your life so suddenly. The marriages like that hardly survive. The period of engagement is needed to get known better and to habituate to the big change in life. Love is not enough to create a good marriage. People need to be mature enough to take that step and that requires some time.
ReplyDeleteWhen you feel something to someone at first sight, it is not love, its infatuation. You don't know that person, you haven't talked to them, don't know their personality or thoughts. You're merely attracted and interested (high chances that on physical level only), but not in love. Falling in love is something that takes some time, even a little bit. That why when forming relationships, you should give yourself time, so that feeling doesn't die early on, and you both land in an unhappy relationship.
ReplyDeleteI think that it is possibile to find love in Tv show, but it is not the best way. In my opinion marriage is a serious decision, which shouldn’t be take „ad hoc”. You need time to get to know other person. I believe in love at first sight, but I think that even in this case couple should wait with wedding at least several months (2-3 years would be better). In this time people could find out if their partner really is how he/she seemed to be when they first met.
ReplyDeleteFrom my point of view there is no point in finding love in such a way. First of all, there is not the perfect process which could provide the best possible matches of two people even if it takes into consideration both physical and emotional level. For instance, I know two people who are totally different and yet they are happy together. Another crucial aspect is that before marriage married couple should find out about habits and environment, which require time and is impossible to achieve for six weeks. What should I add is that I am not astonished that only two out of nine couple, who took part in programme, survived together.
ReplyDeleteIt’s a chance for meet new people, but maybe it’s not a good idea to start relationship right away with wedding. It’s a big step in life and you should think of it before you decide to walk down the aisle with someone. I don’t understand why these poeple have decided to take part in this program, because it was obvious that most of those couples will get divorced. For me it means that marriage as institution is nothing for them so maybe they should stop pretend that they care about marriage with true love. In Poland we had show called „Blind date” and it was something similar, but without wedding at the beginning. Maybe it would be better way to search for spouse. At least it would be more sincere.
ReplyDeleteTo my mind it is impossible to find love in such way. I think that the main goal of the program was to make some money. I can say that love at first sight does not exist. I think it is mostly the sympathy for a person. Before falling in love with a person, it is better to know everything about him and of course, this person should be not like others.
ReplyDeleteMarriage is like a proof of love and a wish of a couple to become a family. It gives the opportunity for the couple to live together and be a legal family.
In my opinion is not possible to find true love thanks to TV show. When we make a decision about marriage we don’t take into consideration only look and character.
ReplyDeleteI believe that we can like someone from first sight, but it is impossible to talk about love without knowing other person.
I do not believe in such things. I hate stupid tv programs like this one. Maybe some people will have a luck and find their love in this way, but come on! Not everybody! I'm waiting for my love like forever so... I do not know if I get married one day. I hope so, but maybe no. I think marriage would be just a formality for me and my "other half".
ReplyDeleteTo be honest this kind of tv shows are just so weird and ridiculous. I do not believe that people really can fell in love in this way. It seems so fake. Television stations really should think about producing better programs that make more sense.
ReplyDeleteI don't believe in love at first sight so I find this kind of marriage, like in this show, just dumb. Relatioship is something more than just the first impression. You may like many people, be charmed by them but it doesn't mean that you are gonna marry them. Falling for someone and building trust is a process. By the way, marriage it's rather a formality for me. It's not neccesary to get married, what in fact looks very materialistic. No matter what, we can't reserve somebody inclusively for ourselves and marriage won't change it if somebody isn't respectful and honest.
ReplyDeleteFirst of all, this is a show and I can’t take it seriously. If people start making money on this (the show is priority for money), the seriousness of this project is very poorly believed. In fact, there are many funny projects regarding this idea, and they, besides making people laugh, do not bring happiness to others. Perhaps such a project has a percentage that people can find each other, but with the same success you will meet a person much faster in real life. These are all the same random encounters.
ReplyDeleteI wouldn't take part in a show alike, however I believe that this is possible to fall in love in such way. Will marriage like this last forever? We don't know, but is it different from normal marriages?
ReplyDeleteAs for me marriage is a kind of promise that you won't be alone again - I believe that everyone should think it through really carefully before it gets more complicated.